frank the goat at the status page now says it's a DDoS attack. it's driving me bonkers to be out of touch. facebook just isn't the same thing.

i worry too at times that what i want from relationships isn't healthy, as you're saying here. for over 30 years, gerry was my mainstay, and without him, i often feel uncertain and adrift. it can be hard to see my dealings clearly (since i am, after all, me). so i hear you!