No disagreement, even if it seems my entry disagreed. I was sorting out my empotional reactions and finding the trigger.

I think i'm very lucky in that Christine and i have evolved very good habits of asking each other things. Christine came in here a little while ago and asked if i would come help with dinner by cutting up the celery because she hates doing it. While cutting up celery doesn't bring me joy, it certainly doesn't bother me at all. I have an irrational irritation at putting up silverware: she does that for me.