I'm much like you--wondering if I'm just being lazy by "self-caring" by sitting at home curled up with a good book/game app/Pinterest and of course Ivan on my lap or nearby. I do sympathize with Christine though and hope you both are weathering ongoing stresses.

I'm not sure about separating marigolds from legumes. I'm curious myself as I've often planted them near each other because of marigolds' anti-bug properties.