I saw that too and wondered about sharing an online oriented form. I do note my resistance to asking for support.

In a slightly different frame, when watching carers work with my mom after her first major stroke, i realized it might be useful to leave a list of words that i have in my mind for bodily functions and body parts that aren't usual topics of discussion. Someone was explaining to my mom that they needed to clean her "hoohah" and the bewilderment on her face made sense to me. "Hoohah"? Not a way anyone in my family (that i know of) described the vulva.