Friday, May 8th, 2026 11:56 pm
I stand corrected; apparently the heat that's due to ramp up this weekend doesn't count as a heat wave because it won't include San Francisco.

There was volleyball in the park, but only one net and nobody was in matching clothing.

Mama Violet was absent all day but stuck her face out from under a bush in the driveway this evening, and when I put down food there, immediately started eating.
Friday, May 8th, 2026 09:37 pm
I had my first raspberry today. Yum.
Bewilderbeast finally opened up today.   I had the rhizomes planted in an area that they HATED.  Too much clay and too much water.  Some completely rotted away before I realized what was happening and moved them to a pot. Here is the strongest of the survivors.  This iris is quite variable, with each bloom a little different. The second picture was taken several years ago in the Henry St garden. On the second picture note the huge white stripe on the upright standard, as opposed to today's flower that has very modest white on the standards.



Wednesday, May 6th, 2026 12:09 am
We owe nothing on this gas bill, no outstanding debt.
Friday, May 8th, 2026 11:00 pm

Posted by Samuel Pepys

Up very early and to my office, there preparing letters to my father of great import in the settling of our affairs, and putting him upon a way [of] good husbandry, I promising to make out of my own purse him up to 50l. per annum, till either by my uncle Thomas’s death or the fall of the Wardrobe place he be otherwise provided.

That done I by water to the Strand, and there viewed the Queen-Mother’s works at Somersett House, and thence to the new playhouse, but could not get in to see it. So to visit my Lady Jemimah, who is grown much since I saw her; but lacks mightily to be brought into the fashion of the court to set her off.

Thence to the Temple, and there sat till one o’clock reading at Playford’s in Dr. Usher’s ‘Body of Divinity’ his discourse of the Scripture, which is as much, I believe, as is anywhere said by any man, but yet there is room to cavill, if a man would use no faith to the tradition of the Church in which he is born, which I think to be as good an argument as most is brought for many things, and it may be for that among others.

Thence to my brother’s, and there took up my wife and Ashwell to the Theatre Royall, being the second day of its being opened. The house is made with extraordinary good contrivance, and yet hath some faults, as the narrowness of the passages in and out of the Pitt, and the distance from the stage to the boxes, which I am confident cannot hear; but for all other things it is well, only, above all, the musique being below, and most of it sounding under the very stage, there is no hearing of the bases at all, nor very well of the trebles, which sure must be mended.

The play was “The Humerous Lieutenant,” a play that hath little good in it, nor much in the very part which, by the King’s command, Lacy now acts instead of Clun. In the dance, the tall devil’s actions was very pretty.

The play being done, we home by water, having been a little shamed that my wife and woman were in such a pickle, all the ladies being finer and better dressed in the pitt than they used, I think, to be.

To my office to set down this day’s passage, and, though my oath against going to plays do not oblige me against this house, because it was not then in being, yet believing that at the time my meaning was against all publique houses, I am resolved to deny myself the liberty of two plays at Court, which are in arreare to me for the months of March and April, which will more than countervail this excess, so that this month of May is the first that I must claim a liberty of going to a Court play according to my oath.

So home to supper, and at supper comes Pembleton, and afterwards we all up to dancing till late, and so broke up and to bed, and they say that I am like to make a dancer.

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Friday, May 8th, 2026 03:36 pm
1) I find the results of this research on people finding medical information to be sad but unsurprising. "Certain groups are particularly likely to say they get health and wellness information from influencers, including adults under 50; Black, Hispanic and Asian Americans; and those without health insurance."

The thing is though, the topics revealed in the study have very little to do with health and medicine and a lot more to do with appearance and weight (plastic surgeons are influencers!) This makes sense, both because women outnumber men as both influencers and viewers, and also because this area of "health" is particularly apt to be a source of revenue for influencers, whether trolling for clients or selling people stuff they think will help them. The number of people who even claim a medical background or auxiliary medical training are outnumbered by people who don't.

2) I mentioned in my last post watching the Roku Soccer Comes to America documentary. Although not that enlightening to somebody who lived through virtually all of it, two things were singled out as being critical to truly establishing the sport which I hadn't thought about. I found it an interesting coincidence that Ted Turner should die at the same time I was seeing it. Read more... )

3) Saw all of S2 of Percy Jackson and I think I enjoyed it more than S1. Read more... )

4) Daredevil's second season is more of a favorite for me than the 1st. Read more... )

5) I speed watched High Country. Read more... )

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Friday, May 8th, 2026 12:12 pm
Long time no post! That's at least partly because my sleep was absolute ass for most of this week, thanks to a too-soft hotel mattress, and misguided attempts to sleep elevated on hotel pillows.

But! As of late last night I'm home. Seldom have I been so glad to see my son, who picked me up at the airport and of course talked about the news. Happiness.

To catch you all up, on Monday was my first post-op appountment: bandages off, staples out. That left the cast on my nose and splints still in my nose, so still no breathing through my nose, which turned out to be the single hardest aspect of this whole process.

What the hell did I do on Tuesday? Oh yeah: I walked to Dark Garden corsets because I was under orders to walk, but they were closed. That may be for the best because a) those people are very good at extracting money from me, and b) trying on corsets is surely against the Sculptor's instructions at this point. But that block of Linden is itself really nice, with some cool street art and hanging lanterns.

I'm proud of myself for making it to Golden Gate Park and Amoeba Music on Wednesday. When I'm in San Francisco I love to go to the Tree Fern Dell and pretend to be a dinosaur. This time, a pelican flew overhead for added realism.

Thing I deliberately blew off: a tour of SomaFM, which can be arranged. I think it would have been too long a walk to that part of the Mission, and if I didn't walk, there wasn't nearly as much point.

Thursday was high stress and stupid: Alaska Airlines had moved my flight an hour earlier, making it questionable whether I could keep my original second post-op appointment and still catch my flight at OAK. The Sculptor's office rescheduled me on short notice a few hours earlier, which while mighty decent of them meant I didn't get to talk to the Sculptor before I jumped on an eastbound BART train. Punch line: I had to wait two hours before I could even check my bag, then four hours more at weirdly deserted OAK.

Oh, the actual second post-op appointment: cast off my nose, splints out of my nose – I helped remove them – and tape on my nose, which I'll be applying myself for the next four weeks for at least part of the day. As of yesterday I can breathe through my nose again!

So am I going to be goddess? I haven't the faintest, not least because I can see my face change from day to day. But it's definitely not a plastic surgery disaster. The Sculptor's chief medical minion, J, says that in two to three weeks I should pass the "grocery store test", i.e. it should stop being glaringly obvious to everyone else at PCC that I've just had surgery, the "lumpies and bumpies" having gone away.

Oh: there's hope on the all-important non-horizontal sleep front. I went up to the loft this morning, looked around, and saw the camping lounge chair that I got for Burning Man oh so many years ago. That should do nicely.
Friday, May 8th, 2026 07:32 pm

Story of enslaved boy featured in 1748 Joshua Reynolds portrait emerges in new study - I online attended a seminar the other week about black children in England from the C17th to C19th which leant fairly heavily on depictions in art (and also sounded a bit like the speaker had pulled out a bit at random examples from their 10 or was it more boxes of research materials) and implied that we could not know what happened to them once they were not more or less cute ornamental pets, so this article goes some way to show that sometimes the larger life story can be discovered.

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This is interesting, given that it is a phase of the parturition cycle that doesn't tend to get that much attention - okay, I have read More Than The Average Person on 'bringing on the menses' and further measures if they were not brought on, and a fair amount about actual childbirth in history: but this is a bit unusual: Anticipating Birth in Early Modern England:

Scholars have described the days leading up to birth in the early modern period as a time when women purchased linens, prepared bedchambers, and called upon the services of a midwife and their gossips. However, manuscript recipe collections reveal that preparations in anticipation of labour went beyond such measures and incorporated the consumption of specific medicines. This article studies remedies that were designed to be taken six weeks before birth to reveal, in new ways, the experiences of late pregnancy in the seventeenth and eighteenth centuries.

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More exciting work from the good people at CamPop, this time circling out from the census records: By linking millions of census records across decades, researchers are turning static snapshots of Victorian Britain into dynamic life histories – revealing how people moved, worked and lived in ways never before possible.

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‘Live and let live’: Northern Ireland historian uncovers surprising era of tolerance of gay men:

Hulme said tacit ignorance and public silence enabled male queerness to flourish with only rare exposure, condemnation or regulation, with a “live and let live” ethos especially prevalent in the working class.

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Muttering that this information can be found in the household recipe books at much less elite social levels, still, it's useful work if it gets people aware of just how diverse British food at that period was: The King’s Dinner: Family, nation, and identity on the British table, 1760-1820.

Friday, May 8th, 2026 10:47 am
I’m feeling antsy this morning, I don’t work until 3 and the waiting is weird. I have plenty to do, the laundry-to-fold pile is so big it’s starting to creep down the stairs, but i’m immobilized by the impending work doom. I’ll get there and have to STAY there until close and won’t be able to say -actually, I’m done with this and leave -napping in my car during the shift is frowned upon, and so is drinking wine. It is beautiful and still outside, the high will be 69 today.
Maybe I’ve just had too much coffee and work will be fine. Maybe the kids will be on point today, and the shift will be a dream of coordinated movement, perfect food, gracious service -looking like a choreographed dance with servers dipping under other’s trays gracefully, the glasses being tossed from one bartender to the other, laughter flowing and even cooks breaking out in song.
I’m going to go for a walk and find some carbs to dampen the caffeine jitters.
Friday, May 8th, 2026 09:07 am



Elon Musk made a statement recently that was very interesting, and even in concept true:
 
 “There will be universal high income (not merely basic income). Everyone will have the best medical care, food, home, transport and everything else. Sustainable abundance.”

This is called the post-scarcity society. And Musk's basic statement and vision is that this is within reach. If we reach the point that machines can do all the work of production and such, well, MACHINES don't need 5 million Playstation 6's or a luxury apartment building or a dozen new blockbuster films, or even just a few billion tons of food of various types. Only people use those things. 

So the LOGICAL thing to do is let the machines do the work and free people to do... whatever they'd like to do, without the constraints of "I can't afford that" or "I would love to, but I have to work three jobs". 

He's right. I don't know if that is quite physically possible NOW, but all the pieces exist to make it reasonable to speculate that it COULD happen, and in not too long a time. 

The problem is, of course, that just because we CAN do a thing doesn't mean that we WILL do that thing, and people like Musk and his co-super-billionaires are actually one of the roadblocks. The nature of their businesses, investments, and practices is to CONCENTRATE wealth, power, and productivity into the control of fewer and fewer people. For Musk to do HIS part to achieve this golden future, for instance, he'd have to give up the vast majority of HIS wealth so that it could be spread out to society. 

Note that "vast majority" does not in any way translate to "pauperize". He could still have a billion or two. He just wouldn't be able to accumulate MORE at a rate greater than the overall productivity of the planet, which currently he's exceeding by, well, a lot. 

Marshall Brain wrote about this problem in his short book Manna: Two Visions of Humanity's Future. While I don't agree with some details of his utopian vision, the basic dichotomy he describes IS our current problem. We are on the edge of near-utopia, or of a vicious dystopia, and the current trends are MUCH more to dystopia, primarily because of the self-perpetuating positive feedback loop of modern investment capitalism without appropriate controls. 

To make the GOOD future happen requires an acceptance of human existence as a value unto itself -- as THE value unto itself, by which all others are measured. (for "human" substitute "sapient being" if you want to allow for actually fully intelligent AIs, uplifted dolphins, or alien visitors). Currently the system has "work" as the actual value, with the exact valuation of "work" depending on what KIND of work it is and who's doing it. The value is also broken down purely into monetary units, which means that the value can be taken and accumulated. You can't accumulate human existence -- we only have one, and it's each person's unseparable value. 

A HUGE amount of our current problems come from the societal, built-in, often-unstated but absolutely present assumptions that not all human existences have value -- or at the least, certainly not the SAME value. This is why we have gatekeeping laws and rules at so many levels. 

It's most obvious in governmental services, which are inevitably FILLED with rules whose purpose, stripped of all the flowery details, is to make sure that people who don't "deserve" the service don't get it. The rules are nearly ALWAYS designed with a preference for denying services rather than providing them. 

For the described near-utopia, the reverse must be true. A person who wants medical care should receive it. There should be no questions about why, or how. A person who needs to eat should be able to get food. A person who wants to have a safe and comfortable home should have one. The only real limits should be "is this going to cause harm to someone else?". (excluding the "harm" of someone being annoyed that Those People are getting stuff). 

To make this all HAPPEN, unfortunately, requires severe and far-reaching changes in multiple areas -- in corporate law and custom, in taxation, in economic assumptions, in almost every single major facet of our world. 

There are some countries that have done some of the groundwork, but without the USA and other major countries leading the charge, the change will take generations to happen, if the dark future version doesn't grind them down first. 

The question is whether the Musks and Bezoses and such can even understand that the utopian world starts with them changing the entirety of their business. 


Friday, May 8th, 2026 09:50 am
Happy birthday, [personal profile] white_hart!
Thursday, May 7th, 2026 09:38 pm
Monty showed himself again this evening, lying on the fence where we had a good view of him from the kitchen window. Probably not coincidentally, I didn't see Mama Violet today. Then when I took out the recycling at dusk, I saw him sitting in the back garden facing the door to the back porch. So I provided food, although it was plain from the view of him on the fence that he is not starving.
Thursday, May 7th, 2026 08:37 pm


A recent sunset seemed to be highlighting the dotted clouds in the area, which made the sky look more patterned than usual.

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Thursday, May 7th, 2026 11:00 pm

Posted by Samuel Pepys

Up betimes and to my office awhile, and then by water with my wife, leaving her at the new Exchange, and I to see Dr. Williams, and spoke with him about my business with Tom Trice, and so to my brother’s, who I find very careful now-a-days, more than ordinary in his business and like to do well. From thence to Westminster, and there up and down from the Hall to the Lobby, the Parliament sitting. So by coach to my Lord Crew’s, and there dined with him. He tells me of the order the House of Commons have made for the drawing an Act for the rendering none capable of preferment or employment in the State, but who have been loyall and constant to the King and Church; which will be fatal to a great many, and makes me doubt lest I myself, with all my innocence during the late times, should be brought in, being employed in the Exchequer; but, I hope, God will provide for me.

This day the new Theatre Royal begins to act with scenes the Humourous Lieutenant, but I have not time to see it, nor could stay to see my Lady Jemimah lately come to town, and who was here in the house, but dined above with her grandmother. But taking my wife at my brother’s home by coach, and the officers being at Deptford at a Pay we had no office, but I took my wife by water and so spent the evening, and so home with great pleasure to supper, and then to bed.

Sir Thomas Crew this day tells me that the Queen, hearing that there was 40,000l. per annum brought into her account among the other expences of the Crown to the Committee of Parliament, she took order to let them know that she hath yet for the payment of her whole family received but 4,000l., which is a notable act of spirit, and I believe is true.

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Thursday, May 7th, 2026 06:02 pm

A further trail of thought more or less kicked off by this comment by [personal profile] flemmings on yesterday's post about Ursula as an anthropologist's daughter and the way that inflected her fiction -

- and then I went, hey, wasn't he part of that whole Franz Boas group that I read that book about at the beginning of 2020 (Charles King, The Reinvention of Humanity) and would she not have been aware of Significant Lady Anthropologists and their work (not just her own ma) -

Like, Margaret Mead and Ruth Benedict?

(Maybe the forthcoming biography will shine some light there???)

Or was that going on in some entirely different compartment to the requirements of fictional narrative? (thinking of my 1920s gals and the gulf between what they were up to with their affairs and abortions and propagating birth control and what the protags in their novels were permitted to get up to.)

Or was there a whole generational thing going on there, which I sort of touched on in commenting about Mitchison on this post, though I think I could make a larger case about that generation that had had to fight for a lot of rights that were already accepted as given by UKleG's day even if there were still major constraints.

(Seem to recollect that I did not think Julie Phillips in that book on writers and motherhood quite brought out the extent to which she was writing of a very specific generation/time-period. With some exceptions.)

Thursday, May 7th, 2026 11:55 am
Yesterday as I was leaving for work my husband threw his slipper at me and it got stuck in the black walnut tree in the front yard. It was the second time he threw it, the first time it landed on the steps in front of me and I (unwisely) threw it back.
It’s a game we play sometimes, like I’ll throw an empty soda bottle through his open window as he drives away and he’s stuck with it because he already drove away. If the object lands in front of you while walking you have to pick it up, but if it’s behind you the thrower picks it up. No extra points for being beaned by said object, unless after it hits you it still lands in front of you.
So before I left for work, doubled over with laughter, I asked him how he was going to get it out of the tree. He said maybe a broom, or throwing something at it. It rained a lot last night and the slipper is still up there. I asked him why he didn’t throw the broom at it, and he said well, there are cars on the street. Now, I think he has an over inflated sense of his own strength, like he’s Thor with the hammer; did he think the broom was going to travel 70 feet?
In any case, the slipper is still out there.
On the topic of hammers, I’m watching Ragnarok on Netflix and I totally recommend it.



Thursday, May 7th, 2026 10:47 am
From last week's [community profile] thefridayfive:

1. Do you like to spend time outdoors?
I am very much an I-would-live-outdoors-if-it-wouldn't-kill-me type of person. I love hiking and even just working around the yard, because there are so many interesting geological formations/plants/moss/grasses/trees/rocks/insects/birds/fungi/animals/etc. that make up our world, and I feel more at home/in awe when I'm among them. I genuinely love hiking any time of year (we just returned from a wonderful trip to Grandfather Mountain.). Unfortunately, I have a lot of outdoor allergies and other overactive immune conditions, so I have to manage my time outdoors carefully.

2. What is your favorite flower?
Hmm, this is tough. I really do adore sunflowers but also lilies, and orchids are a special kind of beautiful - especially the tiny wild ones that are often overlooked.

3. Any favorite warm weather activities?
Hiking, wading in streams, walking riverside, listening to thunderstorms. I do also appreciate occasional trips to the ocean to gaze at the beautiful blue-green Atlantic, feel the sand on my feet, and watch the ghost crabs and shore birds scurry about. I'm really fortunate to live in a place that gives me access to both ocean and mountains, within a few hours drive.

4. Have you ever kept a garden? If so, what did you grow?
We kept a small garden before moving to our current home which is on a heavily wooded lot which nearly full shade. We grew herbs (basil, fennel, dill, lavendar), tomatoes, peppers of all sorts, squash and zucchini. We tried a pumpkin on a whim. I do miss it from time to time and have been thinking about how/where to incorporate a small patch here. I currently have some herbs and small flowers in pots that I move about the yard as the seasons change.

5. Do you know how to swim?
Yes. Growing up my parents invested in one of those aboveground pools that are about 4-5 feet deep and built a deck to go around it. So in summers in middle school and high school I would spend many of my days out there. Not a huge amount of space but it gave me the means to swim and enjoy the water, and I spent a lot of time with my mom there. In college I took more formal swim lessons (was required for graduation, guess they didn't want their graduates to accidentally drown). I really enjoyed those as well as it taught me to better manage my breathing underwater.

Thursday, May 7th, 2026 09:42 am
Happy birthday, [personal profile] marshtide!
Thursday, May 7th, 2026 12:29 am
Sea (100 words) by Gia279
Chapters: 1/1
Fandom: Teen Wolf (TV)
Rating: Teen And Up Audiences
Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply
Relationships: Derek Hale/Stiles Stilinski
Characters: Stiles Stilinski
Additional Tags: Horror, Drabble, Witch Hunts
Summary:

Prompt words: brand, wander, sea

Wednesday, May 6th, 2026 11:57 pm
I was seriously overdressed today, in a heavy long-sleeved T-shirt like I wore yesterday. The sun came out and stayed out, and the temperature shot up. I belatedly saw the Chron guy is promising us a heatwave this weekend.

I was putting laundry on the line when I noticed Prudence watching me. In fact she explored all around me, then when I put the laundry basket and the bag of pegs on the chair behind the garage, she withdrew from the area into the back porch room, and sat there licking her chops as I walked past. Alright then, put down some food, which she ate a bit of.

In the late afternoon, after it cooled down, I took a walk without the housemate, who was off communing with playing cards. Went past the House of Five Lions, where I disturbed the orange long-haired cat, who was lying on the pavement and annoyedly slipped under the gate into the driveway, where the black and white spotted longhaired cat was already lying. Then I noticed lying on the porch steps ... a raccoon. Not the biggest or the healthiest, but the ones that visit our porch set a high standard. It shuffled across the small front lawn as I watched. Another ginger cat, shorthaired and I think a local escapee rather than one of the household, followed it. So it jumped up into a wooden half-barrel beside the porch, and curled up.