Saturday, May 24th, 2025 02:02 pm
Nice to be here.  Here at the long weekend, here posting, here on my own computer.  Here with the coffee circulating in me.  Here after my meeting. Here with cats sleeping and the heat on cuz here it's the end of May and still chilly outside.  Here breathing.  Here.

Glimpses of clarity on what-all is and isn't my responsibility:  thank you for popping in.  How can I make you comfortable?  Would you like a cup of tea?  Probably not, hunh.  FWIW, I declare you welcome.  You delight me.  Let's hang out more.

Just added a buncha movies and shows to watchlists.  Been prone to rewatch stuff, or watch some mediocre thing in front of me, rather than seek out new and new old things.

House painting coming up.  Kinda exciting.  Nervous, as always, about what the workers/contractor'll be like, but there's plenty of reasons to be optimistic.

Time to make something to eat.  Weekend's moving quickly already.
Saturday, May 24th, 2025 10:26 am
My college chum H, with a couple of days notice, told me that she & her hubby were coming up to Seattle for the Folklife festival, and could we get together? Shyeah! She was even willing to get on a bus, so we met in lower Fremont, ate some malatang at 19 Gold, walked around while I played tour guide, had some mead at Mr. B's, and then had to walk all the way to Wallingford to find a stop for their bus that wasn't closed! Even in sensible heels, it was a hike for me.

But yes, it was a lovely evening!

In other news, Good Sister is hip deep in the nitty gritty of plans for fixing up and selling Mom's house. I applaud her, and once again I think I have to whack somebody if she says to. Not that she would ever do that.

And what have I been doing instead of writing Dreamwidth entries? Hanging homemade devil girls* up high with the Wendling's help, staying up too late reading The Expanse, and cleaning up for a joint visit by Dancer and the Tickler. Ahem.



*Based on a drawing from Stjepan Šejič's "Fine Print".
Saturday, May 24th, 2025 04:51 pm

Do we think this trip is doomed already???

My best friend Kady and I are planning a backpacking trip around south-east Asia in a few months and I have proposed the idea of us getting matching tattoos:

We’re both 20, and I think we’ll look back on them when we’re older and remember what a fun life we’ve lived. Tattoos are a reminder of a particular time, and I want to cherish our youth. I’ve found a cool tattoo parlour in northern Thailand, where we’ll be staying. I’ve seen videos of people having great experiences there and the tattoo artist is really talented.... It’s not like I want to get a random tattoo. I’m quite creative and have already started sketching ideas that represent who Kady and I are.

You're 20, duckie....

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In other gruesome news, okay, it is not one bloke spreading his seed to 100s, but I'm not actually sure that 'a worldwide limit of 75 families for each sperm donor' as applied by the European Sperm Bank isn't somewhat on the high side, even when it doesn't turn out further down the line with more sophisticated testing that a donor has a rare cancer-causing mutation.

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And this is sad, rather than gruesome, and makes me wonder about the whole marketing of the 'freezing eggs' thing as 'a groundbreaking act of empowerment', especially as it hasn't turned out like that:

I did not anticipate the emotional landscape that I would face a decade later, as a scientific intervention became a personal meditation on time, money, and unfulfilled dreams.

Saturday, May 24th, 2025 12:56 pm
Happy birthday, [personal profile] catlinyemaker, [personal profile] heleninwales and [personal profile] ruudboy!
Wednesday, May 28th, 2025 12:50 am
But time moves on. What, exactly, do you call "realistic contemporary fiction" once it's no longer contemporary? It's not exactly historical fiction either, since writers of historical fiction generally make specific choices in bringing the past to life, ideally with few or no whoppers of mistakes.

I sometimes say "then-contemporary", but... well, it sounds a bit silly, doesn't it?

(On a related note, it looks like now people are less likely to say "issues book" and more likely to say "social issues book", is that accurate? I'm not loving a change that involves using more words to get to the same meaning, but okay.)

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Saturday, May 24th, 2025 01:47 am
I discovered a few years ago that when I put substances on my skin I can taste them within 30 seconds, with a few exceptions. That led to not wearing foundation, or most makeup (various flavors of odd), sunscreen (nasty burning plastic flavor, and no, I can't explain why burning), and lipstick (fermented plastic flavor). I can wear eyeliner and some concealers, and that's about it. I can use Burt's Bees plain lipbalm, which has mint oil.

Sunscreen is the problem, though. Since I can't use the chemical stuff, I have been trying to find a natural oil that has a decent SPF. Olive oil is about SPF 4-8, which is something but not enough. I heard that avocado oil is higher than SPF 15, so I swiped some from the kitchen and tried it. Unfortunately, it does not behave like olive oil, which eventually sinks in a little and dulls. The avocado stays shiny and oily looking, enough that someone asked me how hot it was outdoors since she thought it was sweat. Um. not good.

Any thoughts on this? I've tried the light powder sunscreen and it's not enough screen for me.
Tuesday, May 27th, 2025 07:05 pm
She can put weight on her foot, but after she walks for a while she doesn't want to. Still, it's recovering pretty rapidly, that's the important thing.

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Friday, May 23rd, 2025 08:09 pm
We had an appointment today in an office building on one of the many twisty, tree-lined roads of office complexes north of Central Expressway. At the traffic light before the last twisty bit, waiting to cross a relatively straight major road, the housemate decided not to proceed on the green light because a large truck was heading straight towards us, on our side of the forested divider. He came straight on, with his hazards on, and turned left in front of us. Into the correct lane, at least. I caught a glimpse of the driver grinning; his load was a flatbed with construction machinery on it, but nothing huge. Unfortunately the housemate didn't think in time to whip out her phone and film.
Friday, May 23rd, 2025 10:28 pm
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Reticulation. Reticulation was a word I got in an email this morning called "Word Daily". Back when I was doing metal work I tried to make reticulated silver. Very cool looking stuff with wrinkly ridges and valleys.

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This was the Paint and Sip picture that we did today. Title: Chloe's Love Truck. That's Andy's head sticking out the window. I changed Chloe's picture to make it personal.

After we got home from the P&S in Oil City we drove up to Erie so Dave could pick up a nail puller tool and a couple pairs of waterproof pants that he was getting from someone on craigslist. We were supposed to meet him at a Russian Orthodox Church Festival. Lots of food in a big tent and music outside. It was so cold though and windy. The guy didn't show up for a long time and then he and Dave had a lot in common so they talked for a long time. I was freezing. I feel like I'm still cold. Going to bed soon and try to warm up with a hot pack.
Friday, May 23rd, 2025 11:00 pm

Posted by Samuel Pepys

At the office good part of the morning, and then about noon with my wife on foot to the Wardrobe. My wife went up to the dining room to my Lady Paulina, and I staid below talking with Mr. Moore in the parley, reading of the King’s and Chancellor’s late speeches at the proroguing of the Houses of Parliament. And while I was reading, news was brought me that my Lord Sandwich is come and gone up to my Lady, which put me into great suspense of joy, so I went up waiting my Lord’s coming out of my Lady’s chamber, which by and by he did, and looks very well, and my soul is glad to see him. He very merry, and hath left the King and Queen at Portsmouth, and is come up to stay here till next Wednesday, and then to meet the King and Queen at Hampton Court.

So to dinner, Mr. Browne, Clerk of the House of Lords, and his wife and brother there also; and my Lord mighty merry; among other things, saying that the Queen is a very agreeable lady, and paints still. After dinner I showed him my letter from Teddiman about the news from Argier, which pleases him exceedingly; and he writ one to the Duke of York about it, and sent it express.

There coming much company after dinner to my Lord, my wife and I slunk away to the Opera, where we saw “Witt in a Constable,” the first time that it is acted; but so silly a play I never saw I think in my life. After it was done, my wife and I to the puppet play in Covent Garden, which I saw the other day, and indeed it is very pleasant. Here among the fidlers I first saw a dulcimere played on with sticks knocking of the strings, and is very pretty. So by water home, and supped with Sir William Pen very merry, and so to bed.

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Friday, May 23rd, 2025 06:05 pm
 I keep planting things in the yard and then forgetting what they are, so I need to take notes somewhere.  This seems like as good a place as any.  

BEAR'S BREECHES
In the front of our yard, facing the road, is an area that has long been overtaken by bear's breeches (Acanthus mollis).  It was pretty enough with its large glossy dark green leaves and spires of purple & white flowers...but it took over the entire bed and wanted to keep expanding its territory.  I was done with it.  I wanted to plant crape myrtles.  W dug up the bear's breeches last fall, but this year it has been coming back with a vengeance.  I go to the front and dig out more roots every 3 days.  A one-inch chopped-off piece of root will continue to send out leaves for...a long time.  Now when I plant something new I dig up the entire area and sort through the soil, finding every chunk of bear's breeches root and throwing it in a pile.  But there are many places where the roots are still under there, and the leaves keep coming up.  I hope to have that plant eliminated from this bed by next year.  It has become clear what a big job that is.

CRAPE MYRTLES
The two we planted are going to be 20 foot trees, but for now they are not even waist high.  I believe they are the Natchez variety, white flowering in late summer, leaves turning orange-red in the fall.  I planted them because I want the muscular trunks to frame my view from the front porch.  I have seen gorgeous crape myrtles in botanical gardens and arboretums.  I've been studying on what to do on youtube--going to go out and cut a couple of crossed limbs and eliminate suckers when I finish this post!

DIANTHUS
(Vivace rustique?) I just planted a pink dianthus in that front bed.  I planted one a couple years ago and W moved it or maybe weeded it out...if he doesn't know what a plant is, he is mean to it.  Anyway I'm hoping that this will bloom soon as it is covered in buds.

GROUND COVER
A month ago I planted a couple of plants that are supposed to cover a lot of ground and I have no idea what they are called now.  I also planted a maroon-leafed composite that is blooming now with chocolatey flowers.  Wish I knew what these things are.

ROSES
The pale pink rose by the front walk is going HUGE right now, blooming harder than I have ever seen.  All the other roses on the property are looking exuberant as well.  I'm not wild about any of our roses because none of them have great aromas.  I like roses for their smell more than anything.

FOOD
We're eating spinach and asparagus from the garden.
Lots of other greens are on the way.
The green beans germinated well and are growing fast.
The broccoli and peppers and tomatoes are growing nicely.
The blueberries are forming up.
The raspberries are flowering and are covered in bees.
The fig tree (2nd season) has figs all over it.
I just potted a basil plant in a large pot---last year they were up-and-dying in the garden soil so I will keep it in this pot for now.

PEAR TREE GONE
W took out the pear tree last fall and we have not planted another fruit tree in its place.  We'd like an apple tree but basically it doesn't matter how much I study up on it, W will not believe me nor will he go with my choices, so he has to do it himself.  Of course, if I go out and buy something he will plant it, he just won't let me tell him what to buy.

MY LITTLE HERB BED
All I have in there is peppermint, thyme, calendula, and digitalis/foxglove.  The foxglove just started to bloom.  The mint is spreading underneath all the other plants and will have to be trimmed back down to size soon.  Scattered around in other places I have a purple sage and a rosemary, and the oregano is mixed into the grass.  The parsley has bolted and W planted stuff all around it.
Friday, May 23rd, 2025 08:45 pm
The Church is early 14th century.

Rood screens are rare survivals and many are 19th century copies, but this one is original:



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Friday, May 23rd, 2025 07:12 pm

My dearios will have heard me whinge about the massive point thahr misst of so much spam I get offering deals and collaborations with my entirely non-profit and very niche personal website -

- and that sometimes one can see that they've picked up on a word or even a phrase but have totally missed CONTEXT quite apart from the fact that I am Not In Trade, perish the thort, not to mention that they tend to miss what one might consider obvious links.

But, lo, I am boggling like a boggling thing over this:

[A] vertically integrated manufacturer based in China with over 14 years of experience specializing in high-efficiency equestrian gear and innovative pet products.
Our 22,000m² facility provides in-house manufacturing of a wide range of products including saddle pads, horse rugs, fly masks, halters, pet beds, leashes, harnesses, and other items. We are pleased to offer top-tier European and American brands known for their superior quality, cost-effectiveness, and prompt delivery.

I don't think I've even got anything on the site relating to e.g. 'pretty horsebreakers' in Victorian England or, indeed, wot abaht bestiality. Or I have a vague recollection that the annals of Victsmut here and there include ponyplay but I don't actually Go There.

I am boggled but in a different way by the spam from a mirror factory in Hangzhou city which informs me that ' it only takes more than ten minutes to drive from our company. I can show you our factory at any time and give you quick feedback to inform you of the production progress.' Pretty sure it does only take more than 10 mins....

Friday, May 23rd, 2025 07:54 am
Gluten-Free Flour Power - Bringing Your Favorite Foods Back to the Table, by Aki Kamozawa and H. Alexander Talbot: A gorgeous cookbook with lots of color photos and not one, not two, but THREE custom flour mixes. One is like an all-purpose flour and is mostly starch (cornstarch, tapioca starch, white rice flour, brown rice flour, nonfat milk powder, potato flour, xanthan gum), one is closer to a whole wheat flour (arrowroot, sorghum flour, white rice flour [or millet], brown rice flour [or sorghum], potato flour, milk powder, guar gum), and one is a low-allergy blend (tapioca starch, sweet rice flour, arrowroot, sorghum flour, potato flour, golden flaxseed meal). And now that I type that out, they're all pretty starchy, as it's the first ingredient in every mix. They're going to give different results, but the authors claim you can use any of the three flour mixes in the recipes.

The recipes have measurements in volume and weight (grams). They're sweet and savory and cover the basic to the very fancy. I mean, the authors pulled out a loaf pan with dimensions I'd never seen before in my life. They also think you have the time, resources, and energy to cold-smoke masa harina. Don't ask.

The font choices are kind of annoying, but it has a useful index, and if I hadn't already hitched my gluten-free wagon to America's Test Kitchen's custom flour mix, I might have given this a try.

This review appeared on my journal in a slightly different form.
Friday, May 23rd, 2025 07:24 am
I "upgraded" MacOS last night to Sequoia 15.5. They've "fixed" Safari like the proverbial cat.

My reading page on DreamWidth displays as a solid screen of light blue, roughly the same as my desktop background. It did briefly show me a screen or two of text - not the whole page - when I refreshed it, but new refresh attempts do nothing.

I was informed last night by Safari that there was a way to get rid of annoying features on web pages. It was identified by an icon, which I couldn't find anywhere else on the Safari screen, and whatever text it was labelled didn't seem to be in any of the menus either, though I didn't make a thorough search.

I now can't remember either the name or the icon, and would never have known how to get back a randomly appearing tip once I'd closed it.

FWIW, My reading page loaded properly in Safari after the post-upgrade reboot. (It was one of my many open tabs when I started the upgrade.) It only broke when I tried to access new messages.

I'm posting this message using firefox.

The improved version of Safari reports itself as version 18.5 (20621.2.5.11.8)

I'd previously been running last year's .5 version of MacOS. Probably 14.5 (The .5 versions tend to be the most stable, or at least did so when I worked at Apple, and the most hated of the year's misfeatures are likely to have been backed out, repaired, or made optional by the time the .5 release comes out.)

I don't know yet whether I'm on the latest Safari or not. I'll do the usual checks one does when one's software craps out once I'm a bit more awake. Meanwhile CrApple is welcome to do anatomically impossible acts with itself, also involving a splintery telephone pole or perhaps an already-deceased cactus.

At a guess, it's a version mismatch or similar, or failure under load - too many tabs for this MacMini to sustain on top of the latest dose of bloat. But it might be CrApple acting to disimprove the user experience of software that doesn't come from its paying partners. After all, using DreamWidth interferes with FaceBook's monopoly.

[Edit: it gets better. I was able to convince my reading page to load in a new Safari window, but the existing blue window is still blue, even on refresh. Same URL.

Also noted - a new icon on the right side of the title bar, which when left clicked reloads the page, and when right clicked gives a choice of reloading the page with or without content blockers. No tool tip of course; the only way to find out the purpose is to right click - or left click and successfully guess that the resulting behaviour constitutes a refresh.

Of course this icon may have been there for 3 releases - I don't tend to notice random curliques embedded in e.g. text input fields, assuming unconsciously that they are merely neo-baroque artwork.

[Edit 2: another website that had been in a tab at reboot showed as a completely blank page, without me attempting to refresh it. Attempting to refresh that tab didn't fix it. Copy-pasting the URL into a new Safari window got me the page contents in the new window, but the messed up one is a lost cause. Clearly users should be discouraged from having too many tabs at reboot - or perhaps from using the (default) feature to reopen existing tabs at Safari restart.]
Friday, May 23rd, 2025 06:56 am
 Today is the beginning both of the graduation "stuff" and packing up Mason in earnest.

Tonight is some kind of champaign mixer for parents and.... Wesleyan grads? professors? It's somewhat unclear. Shawn and I are bringing along somewhat fancy dress so that we can look exactly like the scholarship parents we are. And by "bringing along" I mean that we are stuffing our somewhat fancy clothes into a backpack and bringing it along to our real job for thae day: Packing.

Mason has sent a few things home via FedEx early.Things he was not likely to miss, like his winter clothes. Now we triage what we can pack up and send back via some mail service (now that we will have a car, likely USPS, since it should be cheaper) and what absolutely has to come back in the car with us Like most college students, Mason started out with almost nothing and now has an apartment full of things. Wish us luck. 
Friday, May 23rd, 2025 09:45 am
Happy birthday, [personal profile] szandara!