I hear that you're partly embarrassed. From the outside, it looks natural and admirable to seek assistance for hard decisions.
I just went through a long period of not-deciding/waiting, and then decided, and things fell into place quickly. Perhaps things would have fallen into place just as quickly a year ago? Who knows. All I know is I wasn't ready until I was ready, and the outer support of Focusing to help me listen to myself was a huge part of getting ready.
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I just went through a long period of not-deciding/waiting, and then decided, and things fell into place quickly. Perhaps things would have fallen into place just as quickly a year ago? Who knows. All I know is I wasn't ready until I was ready, and the outer support of Focusing to help me listen to myself was a huge part of getting ready.