I definitely think you can fruitfully and happily be easier on yourself, maybe put the evidence of your experience before your planning?
You know, after I got X-rays taken and learned that I had advanced arthritis of both knees, and then got a bit over the shock of that, I gradually realized that I was thinking of my bad knees as either a moral flaw or the result of moral flaws.
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You know, after I got X-rays taken and learned that I had advanced arthritis of both knees, and then got a bit over the shock of that, I gradually realized that I was thinking of my bad knees as either a moral flaw or the result of moral flaws.