![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
I have a new mastodon account for my professional life in identity management. The only reason i bothered is because i wandered into it after reading a newsletter and wandering into details.... Under the weather mental meandering. I chose https://federate.social/about (and my usual public name handle). This server seems maybe a little on the more moderated side than i would want for a personal account, but for my professional account it's OK.
On the other hand, i think slack instances for tech have been working for me. The channels for a topic are more agreeable to my wandering about.
--== ∞ ==--
I understand that most children don't want to think about their parents as sexual beings, probably a useful taboo. My sister gets very distressed with my Dad's giddiness around his dating. Both of them are still grieving more than i. (I think i could probably get worked up about feeling guilty i'm not grieving? I dunno.)
While i am not emotionally reactive to my Dad's dating, it sure isn't something i really "get". He's such an extrovert and i would like to hide under a rock, thank you. I *feel* judgemental and eye-roll-y but i'm not sure why. He's not aware how big a rebound he's on? He's not particularly reflective while wanting to talk talk talk?
I will confess a certain wicked pleasure in hearing of him dragged out of his comfort zone to a nice restaurant, and sad that instead of him stretching, he's pondering whether the person has too expensive taste for him.
--== ∞ ==--
Grump: ( Grumble )
On the other hand, i think slack instances for tech have been working for me. The channels for a topic are more agreeable to my wandering about.
--== ∞ ==--
I understand that most children don't want to think about their parents as sexual beings, probably a useful taboo. My sister gets very distressed with my Dad's giddiness around his dating. Both of them are still grieving more than i. (I think i could probably get worked up about feeling guilty i'm not grieving? I dunno.)
While i am not emotionally reactive to my Dad's dating, it sure isn't something i really "get". He's such an extrovert and i would like to hide under a rock, thank you. I *feel* judgemental and eye-roll-y but i'm not sure why. He's not aware how big a rebound he's on? He's not particularly reflective while wanting to talk talk talk?
I will confess a certain wicked pleasure in hearing of him dragged out of his comfort zone to a nice restaurant, and sad that instead of him stretching, he's pondering whether the person has too expensive taste for him.
--== ∞ ==--
Grump: ( Grumble )
Tags: